Submissives are strong in their willingness to give themselves up and hand their safety and well being wholly over to another for a certain amount of time.
They possess as much power as pussy massage service Dominant — and with this power comes responsibility. A great submissive learns to exercise their power in a way that befits the role. That is, they learn the true strength in being a submissive.
They will choose play partners that compliment and challenge their own roles, allowing them to grow beautifully in their own BDSM experience. You should make sure that your Dominant is aware of your physical and mental state at any time.
If you have certain triggers, or physical vulnerabilities, or if you have boundaries that should not be pushed under any circumstances, you should make this clear. A good submissive takes care of their own mental stability.
You should not become a submissive because you are waiting for someone to save you — nor because you want to allow a Dominant to save themselves through using you. Real life is not like Fifty Shades of Grey.
BDSM is a mutually beneficial experience that should be comforting, fun, thrilling and — orgasmic, in most cases. There are endless resources for submissives to teach themselves about the role.
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